Echoes of Women: MOMS NGO Event

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The side the world sees is the confident woman I have built over the years, but like every human being, I carry moments of doubt, fear, and imperfection. I am not the best at everything, yet I give my all to whatever I do. Mistakes happen, but each one shapes me and molds my future experiences. On days when giving up feels easier, I remind myself of a simple mantra: No one is perfect.

Life is not always roses and butterflies—it is often the thorns that wake us up, push us to change, and force us to grow. These are the very moments that build resilience. And even when fear knocks at the door, I remind myself that God is watching over me. That sense of trust gives me the courage to take the next step forward.

Recently, as I sat among inspiring women at the MOMS NGO Event: Women Leading the Future 2025, I was reminded of the power of shared stories. Each woman on stage carried not just achievements but also struggles, scars, and lessons that shaped who they are today. Their words reflected both strength and vulnerability—a balance that lies at the very heart of psychology.

The Psychology of Strength and Vulnerability

Psychology teaches us that humans are meaning-seeking beings. According to Viktor Frankl’s logotherapy, even suffering gains purpose when we find meaning in it. Many women at the event echoed this truth: their challenges became fuel for growth, their flaws became stepping stones, and their fears transformed into lessons.

Modern psychology also reminds us of the concept of resilience—the mind’s ability to bounce back from adversity. Resilience is not about avoiding pain but about navigating through it. Cognitive psychology explains that our thoughts shape how we interpret experiences. When we reframe challenges as opportunities, our brain begins to see possibility instead of defeat.

What stood out to me most was how each woman’s story reflected not just achievement, but also psychological safety, grit, and purpose—the pillars that sustain growth.

Lessons from Women Who Lead

  • Abudy: “Don’t do anything that you don’t love.” → A reminder of the psychology of intrinsic motivation—sustainable energy comes from passion, not pressure.

  • Jazla: “I got my first camera very young and I knew what I wanted.” → Early clarity builds a strong self-concept that directs decision-making.

  • Niha: “My personal story helped me fight for others.” → Pain transforms into empathy when we use it to serve.

  • Imma: “Bringing light to what I do gives me joy.” → The science of positive psychology shows that joy fuels productivity and meaning.

  • Marii: “Success is when you are satisfied with what you do.” → True well-being lies in subjective fulfillment, not external applause.

  • Nadha: “Learn something from each area and get help from others.” → Social learning theory reminds us we grow faster when we learn together.

  • Dr. Naa: “Beauty is not what we see on social media. Embrace your flaws.” → Body image psychology proves self-acceptance is key to mental health.

  • Shafee: “I work hard to bring the best in design.” → Hard work builds self-efficacy, the belief that we can achieve results.

  • Reesh: “Smile through tears and keep momentum.” → Emotional regulation is about allowing pain without losing progress.

  • Hanaan: “Become a name in the industry through thawakkul.” → Faith strengthens psychological resilience by reducing fear of uncertainty.

  • Nasooha: “Empowerment is a feeling of psychological safety.” → Without safety of mind, no one thrives.

  • Rizna: “In a male-dominated field, standing up is tough but integrity helps you lead.” → Moral psychology shows integrity creates authentic leadership.

  • Midfa: “The workplace is still not built for working mothers, but we must talk about it.” → Social psychology tells us change starts with voice.

  • Malsa: “Culture lives inside us.” → Identity is deeply tied to collective psychology.

  • Lysh: “Burnout is real. Listen to your body and find gratitude.” → Health psychology emphasizes self-care as the first step to sustainability.

  • Azima: “Choose your battles, ignore the barks, and be a helping hand.” → Emotional intelligence is about knowing when to respond and when to let go.

The Mind Behind the Message

When we reflect on these stories, one truth emerges: the human mind is both fragile and powerful. It bends under pressure but also rebuilds with strength. Psychology shows us that flaws are not signs of weakness but of humanness. Perfection is not the goal; growth is.

The roses in life bring beauty, but it is the thorns that make us strong. The stories of these women remind us that grace and strength are not opposites—they coexist. And when we embrace our fears, failures, and flaws, we rise with deeper purpose.

The confident woman the world sees is not without fear, not without pain. She is simply someone who, through every thorn, chooses to rise.

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